| | we adapt,, but none of us heal. separation is NOT the answer. I was @shelterwood in the 90's..they make it look good but they ruined kids and families..used us and cost parents massive amounts of $$$$$$. if you haven't acted on this yet, please reconsider. Sincerely, a very damaged innocent who spent 15 months in similar facilities described on this forum..variances accepted. and years and years after I am more messed up than ever. its a BAD idea. just listen to your kid and try to work it out at home. that is where we belong. in our own homes or where we feel safe. in general, these places are corrupt and scam artists like you wouldn't believe. good luck and love to you and yours |